Hmm. A year ago I looked decidedly like a man that was beginning to enter his mid 30s. I feel so much better now, although. It is hard looking in the mirror. I have a natural waistline, and it widens for my hip fat, but then goes back down, because my hipbones are decidedly male, and I'll never look like I want to because of that. My hourglass figure will never fully develop.

(just saying that in my own way, I can relate)